Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are only princesses waiting for us to act, just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence something that wants our love.
Rainer Maria Rilke
Two a.m. on the morning after the promised Rapture didn't come. Even though we joked about the possibilities inherent in watching the righteous rise up bodily as we sat on our porches sipping gin & tonic and smoking, there must have been some small part of me that believed this might just be the time. I must have believed, even just a miniscule amount - because I find myself rather glad to still be here, as if maybe I was afraid that there wouldn't be any more chances to do what I'm here to do (whatever that is), any more learning opportunities. Hmmmmmmm.
I'm thinking of the Nelson Mandela quote, that "our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light . . . that most frightens us." That sure is what the Rilke (above) reminds me. Even at two a.m., at work, all the girls asleep, and me struggling for the right words to express what I think I am here, in this job at this hour, to learn and to offer - I can get a glimpse of how afraid I am of feeling my power to maintain and hold a safe environment for both the sleeping girls and the awake me. Is this making any sense?
See, I've tended to think that power is only strength, is comprised of doing, that power means big and bold action. It does frighten me to be learning that acting from my limitations, my vulnerabilities, from where I'm AT without trying to be anyone or anywhere else, really constitutes the authentic power of being me. Learning that just being authentically me is enough, is more than enough, is really, even . . . wait for it . . . important to me and to those I encounter - well, what a lesson.
Guess that's why I feel a little relief that the world didn't end yesterday. This learning to love and accept myself, to love the fearful and trepidatious in me - it's taking a while. Today I'm grateful for the opportunities to keep on learning. And though I don't know, sitting here at two a.m. after checking on the sleeping girls, how my learning might benefit anyone else, I have a sense that the learning itself is what I'm meant to love.